里昂夜讀英語美文[95]:你生活中的人們
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
人們走進你的生活，或者是為了一個原因，或者他們只停留一段時期，或者他們永遠與你相隨。
When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
一旦明曉其中究竟，你就知道該如何面對他們了。
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
有的人出現在你的生活中是有原因的，通常他們填補了你流露出來的需要。
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
幫你渡過難關，指點和支持你，切實地在情感上、精神上幫助你。
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
他們出現是因為你需要他們。
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
然后在一個你無可引咎而又不便的時候，這人說了什么或者做了什么令你們終止了友誼。
Sometimes they walk away.
有時候他們離你而去。
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
有時候他們冒出歪理而逼得你要奮起反抗。
Sometimes they die.
有時候是因為他們逝世。
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
我們必需認識到，自己的需要已經滿足了，愿望已經實現了，他們的工作也就完成了。
Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on.
你的需要得到了回應，接著的是要繼續(xù)前行。
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
有的人在你的生活中只會停留一段時期，那是因為你到了這樣的一個時候：成長、學習，并和別人一起分享你的世界。
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
他們讓你體會平和，也讓你歡笑。
They may teach you something you have never done.
他們可能也教會你做一些從沒做過的事情。
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
他們常能給你帶來無數歡樂。
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
相信這一點！這是真的！可這，只能維持一段時間。
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
持續(xù)一生的情誼將令你終生受益；一點一滴地努力吧，建造一個堅不可摧的感情基礎。
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
你要做的只是去接受經驗，對一生相隨的人付出關愛，并將你所學到應用到生命中的其他關系和方方面面中。
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
愛情令人盲目，而友誼能醍醐灌頂。
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