英語(yǔ)美文朗讀 第504期 Risks are a part of all our lives(下)

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Number 9 - Risk Being Turned Down for A Job. You can't always be the candidate with the best skills for an available position. There is a lot of highly qualified competition out there. And even if you are the best candidate for the job, you still might not get it. Such is life.

第九，承擔(dān)求職失敗的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。你不可能總是那個(gè)最優(yōu)秀的求職者，資歷很深的人還有很多。就算你是最優(yōu)秀的，你還是可能得不到這份工作。這就是生活。

But, if you don't make the attempt and risk getting turned down, how do you ever expect to get your dream job? Most often, persistence pays off. People who show how much they really want the position and seem to be a good fit for the team often impress hirers. Experience isn't everything. Think about it this way. If you risk not getting the job, you might actually get it!

但是，如果你不去承擔(dān)求職失敗的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)，你怎么可能得到理想的工作?大多數(shù)情況下，堅(jiān)持是會(huì)得到回報(bào)的。那些能讓老板知道自己多么渴望得到這份工作、并且和團(tuán)隊(duì)合得來(lái)的人，總能得到老板的青睞。經(jīng)驗(yàn)不是最重要的。你可以這樣想，如果你愿意承擔(dān)求職失敗的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)，你就有可能求職成功!

Number 10 - Risk Exposure and Being Judged. No one truly likes to be criticized or negatively judged. Yet, all of us criticize others, and all of us are constantly being judged. People observe actions, things and other people, and they form an opinion. It's part of our human nature. Of course, some criticism can be useful. But the opinions of most people, however, is of no value, so just don't let it bother you.

第十，承擔(dān)被他人評(píng)判的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。沒(méi)有人喜歡被批評(píng)，沒(méi)有人喜歡被他認(rèn)消極地評(píng)價(jià)。然而，我們所有人都會(huì)批評(píng)他人，與此同時(shí)，他人也在評(píng)判我們。人們會(huì)觀察他人的行為，然后形成自己的觀點(diǎn)，這是人性的一部分。當(dāng)然，有些批評(píng)可能是有用的，但是大多數(shù)人的意見(jiàn)是沒(méi)有價(jià)值的，所以你不用為此煩惱。

Number 11 - Risk Putting It All on The Line. There may come a time when you have to risk everything in order to achieve success, and it can be very scary! If you are going to really roll the dice at some point in your life, it's best do it when you are relatively young and have time to bounce back. The greatest successes often demand the greatest risks. But make sure the risk is calculated. Know precisely what you are putting at risk and what the reward will be.

第十一，承擔(dān)孤注一擲的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。你可能會(huì)遇到為了成功只能孤注一擲的情況，這是很嚇人的!如果你真的要冒這個(gè)險(xiǎn)，那么最好在你年輕的時(shí)候做這件事，因?yàn)槟氵€有重頭再來(lái)的機(jī)會(huì)。最大的成功，往往來(lái)源于最高的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。但是，要衡量好這個(gè)風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。你要明確地知道自己投入了多少，回報(bào)可能有多少。

Number 12 - Risk Admitting That You Don't Know. If you don't know something, you should not feel embarrassed. If that knowledge is important to you, learn it! In most cases, it won't take much time at all. Discovering that there is something useful you don't yet know, is a valuable opportunity to learn something new. Most knowledge is actually quite easy to acquire, but only if you ask questions and are willing to risk admitting what you don't know.

第十二，冒險(xiǎn)承認(rèn)自己對(duì)某些事不了解。如果你不了解某件事，你不應(yīng)該感到尷尬。如果這很重要，那就去學(xué)!多數(shù)情況下，你要花的時(shí)間并不多。發(fā)現(xiàn)有一些很有用且你還未了解的事，這是一個(gè)很寶貴的學(xué)習(xí)新事物的機(jī)會(huì)。多數(shù)知識(shí)是很容易獲取的，但前提是你愿意問(wèn)問(wèn)題，愿意承認(rèn)自己對(duì)此了解不多。

Number 13 - Taking Full Responsibility for Your Happiness. Our happiness is a direct result of the decisions we make and the things we do. Don't rely on others to make you happy. You will often be disappointed. Realize instead that your past and present conduct is your responsibility. That might sound harsh, but taking responsibility for your future actions should actually feel empowering. Your future happiness is in your hands! Yes, the words and actions of others can affect you. But the best way of getting control over your situation is to rely on your own judgement. So, stop blaming others, and stop waiting around for them. It won't get you anywhere. Don't surrender your power. Take responsibility!

第十三，為自己的幸福負(fù)責(zé)。我們的幸福來(lái)源于我們做的決定和事情。不要依賴別人來(lái)讓你幸福，不然你會(huì)經(jīng)常感到很失望。反之，你要意識(shí)到，你過(guò)去和現(xiàn)在所做的事情，都是要由自己負(fù)責(zé)的。這聽(tīng)起來(lái)可能挺殘酷的，但是，能夠?yàn)樽约旱奈磥?lái)負(fù)責(zé)，這能讓你感到你把握住了自己的命運(yùn)。你的幸福取決于你自己!沒(méi)錯(cuò)，其他人的言論，其他人的行為，都可能影響你。但是，如果想控制局面，最好的方式就是根據(jù)自己的判斷來(lái)做事。所以，不要埋怨別人，不要為他們作無(wú)用的等待，這對(duì)你沒(méi)什么好處。不要放棄自己的力量，要為自己負(fù)責(zé)!

Number 14 - Letting Go and Starting Anew. At times, we try to hold onto something we no longer have or things we can't control. We look back on past relationships or lost opportunities and constantly kick ourselves for our mistakes. The past is done. Yes, you can learn valuable lessons from it, but obsessing over it will just hold you back. So let it go. Accept the end of something in order to begin building something new. Essentially, you can look at life like a game. You have very little influence on its rules.

第十四，學(xué)會(huì)放手，重頭再來(lái)。有時(shí)候，我們放不下一些早就不屬于我們的、或者我們無(wú)法控制的事情。我們回想以往的感情，回想曾經(jīng)失去的機(jī)會(huì)，不斷埋怨自己所犯的錯(cuò)誤。過(guò)去已經(jīng)過(guò)去。沒(méi)錯(cuò)，你可以從中學(xué)到寶貴的教訓(xùn)，但是如果你一直沉浸在過(guò)去中，這只會(huì)拖累你。所以，放手吧。接受事情的結(jié)果，才能有新的開(kāi)始。從根本上說(shuō)，你可以把生活看作一場(chǎng)游戲，你無(wú)法決定規(guī)則。

Successful and happy people, however, take advantage of the rules, and they're even willing to bend them. They take risks. Ultimately, risk is an essential part of life. You take the chance of getting hit by a careless driver every time you walk down the street. When you decide to take your own risks, however, you are exercising control and power over your own life. Yes, it could go wrong, and failure can be very painful. But not taking a risk often turns out to be a huge mistake. Everyone can look back on their lives and regret the risks they did not take. After all, taking risks offers the greatest rewards in life!

然而，那些成功的人，那些幸福的人，他們會(huì)充分利用規(guī)則，他們甚至愿意改變規(guī)則。他們?cè)敢饷半U(xiǎn)。歸根結(jié)底，風(fēng)險(xiǎn)是生活中很重要的一部分。每次你上街，都是在冒險(xiǎn)，因?yàn)槟憧赡鼙荒硞€(gè)粗心的司機(jī)撞到。然而，當(dāng)你決定要自己去冒險(xiǎn)的時(shí)候，你是在掌握自己的生活。確實(shí)，有可能你得不到好結(jié)果，失敗是很痛苦的。但是，不去冒險(xiǎn)，終歸是一個(gè)巨大的錯(cuò)誤。每個(gè)人，在回顧過(guò)往的時(shí)候，都會(huì)后悔自己當(dāng)初沒(méi)有冒險(xiǎn)做某事。畢竟，在我們的人生中，冒險(xiǎn)能夠帶來(lái)最大的回報(bào)。