雙語脫口秀《老外來了》:西方男生戀愛的特征，你以為的“喜歡”，或許只是

主播：Peter（英國） 翩翩（中國）

歌曲：You're Beautiful

1. General ways they show friendliness? 歐美男人表達(dá)友好的常用方式？

To show friendliness, maybe they could pay you some compliments.

有的時(shí)候會(huì)夸獎(jiǎng)一下，而且一定是short and polite的夸獎(jiǎng)。

I like your dress. 我喜歡你的裙子。

I like your hairstyle. 你的發(fā)型不錯(cuò)呀！

Buy food for you, buy you drinks

偶爾會(huì)給女生買一下食物、幫你買單、或者給你買飲料喝，但注意不是very often哦。

Open the door for you, or open the car for you to get in and out.

幫你開車門，或者進(jìn)門時(shí)幫你開一下門也只是在being gentlemen哦，千萬別misunderstand啦。

所以說平時(shí)偶爾照顧一下女生，或者幫女生買個(gè)單等等，It doesn’t mean anything. 并不能說明什么，所以此時(shí)不宜自作多情哦。

You don’t want to have mixed signals. 你也不想會(huì)錯(cuò)意吧

2. Paying more or strong compliments

Look at you sideways glances

經(jīng)常偷偷看你

sideways glances 斜瞥，偷偷地從側(cè)面看你

If you catch this guy give you a sideways glances, or give you more strong compliments

如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)與男生偷偷地看你，或者經(jīng)常夸獎(jiǎng)你，那么恭喜你，他喜歡你哦！

3. phrases to confess:

I feel like we are more than friends. 我覺得我們友達(dá)以上了。

I have feelings for you. 我對你蠻有感覺的。

I have a thing for you. 我暗戀你

那么什么時(shí)候說I am in love with you 呢？

It’s more serious. They would only say that after they are already couple.

這句話通常在已經(jīng)是情侶的時(shí)候才能說哦。

4. How can you tell a man is trying to date with a girl? 歐美男人在試圖跟一個(gè)女人約會(huì)的表現(xiàn)？

Paying for her food and drink very often.

吃飯時(shí)經(jīng)常給她付錢

Gentlemen will walk her home after a night out.

紳士的男人會(huì)送她回家

a night out 晚間外出

Often ask a girl to cinema/ dinner

經(jīng)常約她去看電影或者吃飯

Following you on social media, and like your posts.

在社交媒體上，像Titter、WeChat、Weibo等，他們會(huì)like most of your posts，并且迅速點(diǎn)贊或者留言。

give you a like/ comment 給你點(diǎn)個(gè)贊/留個(gè)言

It’s very important not to have mixed signals. Or it could be awkward.

不要會(huì)錯(cuò)意，不要自作多情這一點(diǎn)非常重要！否則的話就會(huì)非常尷尬。