單身男士的情人節(jié)：我單身 我快樂(lè)

You're single -- a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one in particular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon with no one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, and why shouldn't it be?

假設(shè)你是單身——一個(gè)熱衷艷遇的單身漢，那么你既不需要向誰(shuí)負(fù)責(zé)，又可以像John Belushi那樣狂歡，還可以一覺(jué)睡到自然醒，太陽(yáng)照到屁股也沒(méi)人管。多美妙的生活啊，不是么？

These days, there's no real social pressure to get married right out of high school or college, you can easily get laid without saying "I do," and most people are waiting until much later in life to tie the knot, anyway.

當(dāng)今社會(huì)中，并沒(méi)有太大壓力逼迫著你在高中或大學(xué)畢業(yè)后去結(jié)婚。即便不說(shuō)“我愿意”，你也可以輕易跟女人上床。很多人都選擇了晚結(jié)婚。

Still, that nagging question keeps popping into your head: Should I settle down? Should I ransom my freedom? Should I embark on the great search for my soul mate and willingly kiss my single days goodbye forever? While only you can answer this question, here are a few reasons for staying single (at least for the time being).

然而，一個(gè)鬧心的問(wèn)題始終縈繞腦際：我應(yīng)該安定下來(lái)么？我應(yīng)該贖回我的自由么？我應(yīng)該踏上尋找心靈伴侶的旅程、向單身的時(shí)光揮別么？以下我們將提供一些堅(jiān)持（至少是暫時(shí)堅(jiān)持）單身的理由，雖然只有你自己才能回答上面的問(wèn)題。

1- You can take the time to find the right woman

1.你有足夠的時(shí)間來(lái)尋找合適的女人

One of our reasons for staying single is that you can afford to wait for your true soul mate (if one even exists) to pop into the picture. You can take the time to casually wade through the barracuda-infested waters of the dating pool and set your hook for the prize catch.

單身理由之一，你可以等待，直到真正的心靈伴侶出現(xiàn)（如果存在的話(huà)）。面對(duì)遍布荊棘的婚姻之路，你可以耐下性子，放長(zhǎng)線，釣大魚(yú)。

In other words, by holding out for Miss Right (instead of Miss Always Right), you can avoid the mistake of a lifetime and marry for love -- and not out of desperation.

換句話(huà)說(shuō)，耐心等待意中人的出現(xiàn)，可以防止一不小心找上母老虎。你是出于愛(ài)情、而不是因?yàn)樽咄稛o(wú)路而結(jié)婚。這樣便不會(huì)留下終生遺憾。

It's sad to say, but too many guys get hitched for the wrong reasons, like they've reached a certain age, all of their friends are getting married, and they haven't been successful at dating and this woman is the first to show interest.

我們還是很遺憾地看到，有太多人因?yàn)殄e(cuò)誤的原因選擇結(jié)婚，比如說(shuō)，到了某個(gè)年齡，或是朋友們都結(jié)了婚，又或是情場(chǎng)屢屢失意后終于碰上一個(gè)對(duì)自己表現(xiàn)出興趣的女人。

This reason for staying single allows you to take your time playing the dating game, and increase your odds of beating the divorce statistics.

有了這個(gè)單身的理由，你大可以慢慢享受情場(chǎng)之歡，降低離婚風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。

2- You can focus on your career

2.你可以更加重視你的事業(yè)

Our No. 2 reason for staying single is that you can enjoy the opportunity of building your career without draining the tons of energy a permanent relationship entails. You remain free to put in long hours, work on the weekends or do whatever else you have to do to be successful. This is especially true if you're working in any kind of time-demanding field, such as medicine, law or entrepreneurship.

單身理由之二，你可以盡情打拼事業(yè)，無(wú)需為婚姻心力交瘁。你可以投入大把時(shí)間，在周末工作，或是做那些可以讓你有所成就的事情。尤其當(dāng)你的工作很費(fèi)時(shí)間，例如從醫(yī)、從事法律工作或是做企業(yè)家，這一條就更加重要。

The upside is, once your business hits the big time and you're cranking mucho dinero , you'll have hordes of women throwing themselves

at you. That being said, you probably still won't even have time to think about marriage.

最大的好處是，一旦事業(yè)有成，無(wú)數(shù)女人就會(huì)蜂擁而至。到那時(shí)，或許你根本無(wú)暇考慮結(jié)婚的問(wèn)題。

3- You can do what you want, when you want

3.無(wú)論何時(shí)，你都可以做你想做的事

When you're single, the world is your oyster. You can pick up and go anywhere you want, do anything you want, any time you want. No one is in the background nagging at you to do chores, go shopping, or "grow up."

如果你是單身，那么整個(gè)世界盡在掌握。不論何時(shí)何地，你可以從心所欲。沒(méi)人摧著你干家務(wù)或去逛街，也沒(méi)人要你“別耍孩子氣”。

You're absolutely free to hang out with your buddies, party until dawn and find plenty of time for your personal interests and hobbies. Best of all, you have the luxury of being all by yourself, if you feel like it.

你可以盡情和弟兄們出去狂歡至天明，留出足夠時(shí)間從事興趣愛(ài)好。最妙的是，你可以做你喜歡的自己。

4- You can enjoy a sexual smorgasbord

4.你有更多機(jī)會(huì)一夜風(fēng)流

One of the best reasons for staying single is that you're not stuck with the same sex partner for the rest of your life. The dating universe is yours to conquer. You can happily sample all the different fare at the sexual buffet, and keep your taste buds primed for the next dish being served.

單身理由中最具吸引力的一條，你無(wú)需和某個(gè)固定的性伙伴度過(guò)下半輩子。情場(chǎng)就躺在你的腳下。你可以遍嘗魚(yú)水之歡，時(shí)刻性致盎然 。

What's more, you never have to wrestle with sexual boredom or lack of variety (and you'll be the envy of all your married friends).

此外，你不用擔(dān)心會(huì)對(duì)千篇一律的交歡方式索然，并會(huì)讓有婦之夫們眼紅。

5- You can build wealth

5.你可以積累財(cái)富

Staying single means not being forced into buying a 10,000-megawatt diamond ring (so your fiance can impress her friends with the huge price tag) or any of the other bloodsucking financial drains that marriage entails, for that matter.

堅(jiān)持單身，意味著你不必硬著頭皮去買(mǎi)天價(jià)鉆石（以便你的未婚妻在朋友面前炫耀），也免得被婚姻慢慢榨干血汗錢(qián)。

And you won't be stuck having to regularly shell out for the flowers, more jewelry and the other gifts that a wife demands (it's like paying maintenance fees on a condo).

你也無(wú)需在鮮花、珠寶或是其他女人感興趣的玩意兒上面砸錢(qián)（那些就好比給房子支付維護(hù)費(fèi)用）。

By staying single, you're not legally or financially obligated to anyone but yourself. But once you John Hancock the dotted line on that marriage contract, she has you by the balls forever.

堅(jiān)持單身，金錢(qián)和法律方面你只需對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé)。而一旦在那張白紙上簽下黑字，她這輩子都靠你養(yǎng)了。

You can take this money (that somehow spontaneously becomes "hers" once you get married) and invest it in important things like sex-drenched singles' cruises, buying cool cars or building equity in a house.

你可以用那些錢(qián)（一旦結(jié)婚，這些錢(qián)無(wú)條件轉(zhuǎn)入她的帳下）做一些有意義的事情，比如參加瘋狂的單身派對(duì)，買(mǎi)好車(chē)，購(gòu)好房。

6- You can enjoy serenity

6.你可以享受寧?kù)o

Another reason for staying single is that being alone means peace and quiet. When you don't live with a woman, you're not subjected to her never-ending mood swings and emotional storms, or her blaming you for everything that she screws up in her life.

另一個(gè)單身理由是，你可以享受到寧?kù)o。和女人生活，你就得接受女人的喜怒無(wú)常，女人的火山爆發(fā)，女人做錯(cuò)事情卻讓你跪搓衣板。

And, of course, no fights. As long as you keep her as a casual girlfriend and not a wife, if she gets too uppity you can simply walk away, free and clear.

此外，沒(méi)有爆發(fā)戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)的危險(xiǎn)。只要她是你普通的女友而不是妻子，一旦她讓你不爽，分手就是了，一清二白。

7- You can keep your toys

7.你可以留著那些玩具

When you're single, you can hang on to all your fun toys -- that classic Mustang, the speedboat, the Harley -- all of which seem to magically disappear overnight once you get married.

保持單身，你可以留著那些有趣的玩具——野馬車(chē)、哈雷機(jī)車(chē)、模型賽艇——一旦結(jié)婚，那些玩意仿佛一下子就不見(jiàn)蹤影。

Your wife won't want you to have these things because they take the focus off her and she feels it's her money that she could be better spending on clothes and shoes.

你的妻子不會(huì)希望你留著它們，因?yàn)樗J(rèn)為，那些東西會(huì)讓你減少對(duì)自己的關(guān)注，同時(shí)，她會(huì)覺(jué)得那是她的錢(qián)，花在衣服和鞋子上才更合適。

8- You don't have to compromise

8.你無(wú)須妥協(xié)

Being single means you don't have to constantly find a "middle ground" -- meaning, doing what she wants to do (whether you like it or not). This includes being forced to see chick flicks or suffer antique fairs and dinner with her friends. And you'd better toe the line buddy, or you'll have hell to pay and no more sex for you.

保持單身，意味著你不必老是唯唯諾諾，做那些不論你喜不喜歡都得做的事情，包括：欣賞你愛(ài)我我愛(ài)你的言情片，看那些老得掉渣的展覽，和她的女伴們共進(jìn)晚餐。你若不從，老婆很生氣，后果很?chē)?yán)重，有床也沒(méi)法上。

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