Henry Ford said, 'If you think you can or if you think you can't, you are right!" Jesus, Himself said, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he".
Who you are today and the level of failure or success you have achieved is in direct proportion to who you think you are and what you think you can achieve. You may be stuck right now; stuck in the same old job you hate, stuck in the bitterness of anothers betrayal to you, stuck in a body that is 50 pounds overweight; I don't care how stuck you are and for how long you have been stuck, you can walk out of it in the amount of time it takes you to think your next thought. Yes, it's the truth! There is a giant of success within you just waiting to be aroused and awakened by the power of your own suggestion!
Someone once asked this question, "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time". You can walk out of your failure in any and every area of your life beginning with your very next thought. You must take captive the stinkin' thinkin' that has been allowed to run unchallenged in your mind. Negativity, self-doubt, procrastination, the lie that tells you, "This is the hand life dealt you and there is really nothing you can do about it, the lie that there are successful people, failures and mediocre people and they are born that way"; Hogwash! You are equipped to be anyone and anything you choose to be! The only difference between the successful and the failure is this, successful people engage themselves in positive self-talk and positive affirmations (both consciencely and sub-consciencely) daily. They are willing to fight for what they want to be and achieve, to sacrifice the momentary pleasure to live the enduring life they envision for themselves.
Are you ready to walk out of the muck and mire of defeat and failure and into the life you have always dreamed of? Then do it! Do it right now! It all begins with your very next thought. Refuse to think like a failure, replace every negative lie with a positive affirmation and remember this..."It's not what you do, it's what you keep on doing!" It takes 21 days to form any habit in your life, so be ready to fight the good fight of faith against negativity and before you know it, you will have formed a habit that will begin to direct your sub-conscience thoughts step by step right into the life you've always wished for but didn't know you could live. It's sort of like Dorothy in the Wizzard of OZ, Glenda, told her, "You've always had the power to be where you wanted to be", Dorothy says, "Why didn't anyone tell me it was as simple as clicking my heels three times and SAYING THE RIGHT WORDS?" Because you wouldn't have believed it before now!
The power of the spoken word and the spoken thought may seem too simple to be the answer to your getting un-stuck in life, but sometimes people stumble over the answer only because it seems too simple. We want a magic pill or some kind of epiphany but I'm telling you, at the end of the yellow brick road, you will descover you had the power within you all along!
為什么有的人獲得一個(gè)又一個(gè)的成功,而有的人卻總是停留在原處,停留在五年前的狀態(tài)?成功的人往往有共同的心態(tài),人們很少注意到、也沒有把成功者的心態(tài)應(yīng)用到自己的日常生活中,這個(gè)心態(tài)就是有益的自我暗示,如果堅(jiān)持有益的自我暗示,就會(huì)很快改變你的生活。
亨利·福特說:“如果你認(rèn)為自己能做到,就能做到!如果你認(rèn)為自己做不到,就做不到!”耶酥說:“一個(gè)人心里覺得自己是什么樣,他或她就是什么樣!”
你今天成為什么樣的人?取得了怎樣的成功?遇到了怎樣的失敗?這些都與你心中所想、所預(yù)期的成正比。也許你現(xiàn)在的生活停滯不前,仍舊在做著自己不喜歡的工作,仍舊在痛恨著別人的背叛,你的身體還是超重50磅而沒有成功的減肥,不管你停留在什么樣的情形下,也不管你在這樣的情形下困惑了多長時(shí)間,只要你肯改變一下自己的思維定勢(shì),你就可以走出困境,當(dāng)你改變自己的思維定勢(shì)的時(shí)候,就是你走向新生活的時(shí)候,真的!用積極的自我暗示來喚醒和激勵(lì)自己,然后你就會(huì)依靠自己的力量獲得巨大的成功。
有人曾問過這樣一個(gè)問題:“怎樣吃掉一頭大象?一次咬一口。”只要轉(zhuǎn)換一下思維方式,就可以使你生活的各個(gè)方面煥然一新。不要再讓消極、自我懷疑和惰性在你的頭腦中棲息了,要俘虜這些負(fù)面的東西。正是這些不良思維定勢(shì)使你覺得你的生活本來就是現(xiàn)在這個(gè)樣子,是不可改變的;使你覺得每個(gè)人的成功、失敗都是命中注定的;你覺得平庸的人是命中注定要平庸的!噢,只要你想成功,你可以做任何想做的事,可以成為一個(gè)了不起的人!成功者與失敗者的唯一區(qū)別是,成功者總是(有意或潛意識(shí)的)積極鼓勵(lì)自己、自我肯定。他們?cè)敢鉃樽约旱哪繕?biāo)而努力奮斗,他們能夠?yàn)榱藢淼某晒Χ鵂奚痰男菹蕵窌r(shí)間。
你想走出失敗的泥沼、擁有自己夢(mèng)想的生活嗎?那么從現(xiàn)在開始努力吧!只要你轉(zhuǎn)變一下思維方式,不要去想失敗,取而代之的是,用積極的自我肯定來驅(qū)散失敗的想法,并一直堅(jiān)持下去……。重要的不是你是否現(xiàn)在這樣做了,而是你是否堅(jiān)持做了。這樣用21天,你就會(huì)形成新的思維習(xí)慣,準(zhǔn)備好用自信來戰(zhàn)勝你的消極心態(tài)吧,你就會(huì)形成新的思維定勢(shì),無意中,指引你一步步的得到自己想要得到的生活,而在此之前,你從沒想到過你能真正擁有自己想要的生活。就象奧茲國的仙女格琳達(dá)對(duì)多蘿西說的那樣:你有能力得到自己想要得到的一切!多蘿西說:“為什么沒有人告訴過我,只要敲鞋跟三下,并喊合適的話語,就可以得到想要得到的?”因?yàn)槟阋郧皬奈聪嘈胚^!
肯定的話語、肯定的想法就可以改變你的生活,這看起來太簡單了,但恰恰是因?yàn)樘唵瘟?,有時(shí)許多人卻沒有做好。我們都想得到一個(gè)神奇的藥丸或者是希望有奇跡出現(xiàn),但是我要告訴你,當(dāng)你走到黃磚路的盡頭,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),你的身上一直都有著巨大的力量!