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英語(yǔ)沙龍十年合集珍藏版第三輯My Stepfather,My Friend

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My Stepfather,My Friend

 

Nine years ago,after Leo had died,people said to me,“I never knew he was your stepfather.”You see,I never called him thatAt firsthe was no one special in my lifeThen he became my friendIn time,I felt he was my father too

Leo married my mother when I was 11;two years later we moved into a house in a new suburb an developmentAt first,our lawn1) was just a mud pile with a few untidy clumps of grassbut Leo saw bright possibilities.“Your mother wants flowers;she can plant them here,where there’ s lots of sun,”he said,“We‘ll plant trees over there,to give us shadeAnd in the backyardI‘d like a barbecue2).”Then he smiled.“After so many years of apartment living,now we can have cookouts

For years Leo had lived in an apartment by himself,and now he was putting down roots in the suburbsAt first our splitlevel3) house resembled all the others,but then it began to changeLittle touches――my mother’s flower garden,Leo’s trees ――made our house uniqueMore important,a real family was forming within this house,with its own special traditionsLeo was becoming a fulltime parent,and I was learning what it meant to have a father

Weekday mornings when the weather was bad,Leo often drove me to schoolHaving a father drop you off may have been something my classmates took for granted,but I always thought it was wonderful Saturday mornings,we went to the hardware store,then browsed4) in the fiveandten5),buying a sports magazine for my brother and something for meSome people might think that doing errands together is nothing specialbut I,who had previously spent my childhood watching other families do these everyday activities,savored6) them now with intense delightLooking back,I realize that Leo gave me what I needed most――the experience of doing ordinary things together as a  family

One day,we learned that my realfather――who hadn’t seen or supported my brother or me for more than five years――wanted to see us againon a regular basisWe remembered too well the early years we had spent with himHe had been angry and cruel,violent and unlovingSince my brother was then 17years old,he didn’t have to follow familycourt stipulations7)But because I was still aminor”,I had to meet with the judgeWhen Leo,my mother,and I entered the courtroommy realfather was already presentI avoided his glance and told the judge I was part of a new family now,and that Leo taught me how to make thingstook me to the movies,and helped me with my homeworkI said I didn’t want to see my realfather anymore because he had never shown any love for me or even much attentionThe judge looked at Leo.“How are things going?”he asked.“They couldn’t be better,”Leo answered.“I’m a lucky man to have such a family.”My realfather’s visitation request was denied that day;he was out of my life,and I was deeply relievedI also knew Leo had become my dearest friend

Aren’ t the best parents also good friends to their childrenaccepting them without reservation and telling them they can be counted on?Stepfamilies aren’ t bound by traditional ties,so the love and friendship they develop is extremely preciousWas Leoperfect”?He‘d deny it if I said soAnd that’s one reason why he was soperfectto meSometimes,during the first years my new family lived together,I‘d look out my bedroom window on warm summer nights and see Leo and my mother in front of our houseTogether they’d walkMy parents,I would thinkI actually have two parents

Soon after we moved to the suburbs,on e of our new neighbors introduced herself to meShe had already met my mother and Leo.“You know,”she remarked,“you look just like your father.”I knew she was just making conversation――but even so...“Thank you,”I saidWhy tell her anything different

 

我的繼父,我的朋友

 

9年前,利奧去世后,人們都對(duì)我說(shuō),“我從來(lái)不知道他是你的繼父。”是啊,我從不那樣叫他。最初,他在我生活中不占什么特別位置。后來(lái)他成了我的朋友。再后來(lái),我覺(jué)得他就是我的父親。

我11歲那年,利奧娶了我的母親;兩年后,我們搬進(jìn)郊區(qū)新開(kāi)發(fā)區(qū)的一幢房子里。最初,我們的草坪只是一個(gè)土堆,零星長(zhǎng)著一些雜草,但是利奧認(rèn)為這里大可利用。“你母親喜歡花,她可以在這兒種,這兒陽(yáng)光充足,”他說(shuō),“我們?cè)谀莾涸孕?shù),可以遮陽(yáng)。在后院,我要舉辦烤肉野餐。”隨后他微笑著說(shuō):“住了這么多年的公寓,我們終于可以在外面野餐了。”

多年來(lái)利奧一直獨(dú)身一人住在公寓里,現(xiàn)在他開(kāi)始在郊區(qū)安家了。起先我們的錯(cuò)層式的房子與其他的大同小異,但很快就有了變化。一些小小的點(diǎn)綴---我母親的花園,利奧的樹(shù)---使我們的房子變得與眾不同。更重要的是,一個(gè)有著其獨(dú)特傳統(tǒng)的真正家庭正在這座房子里形成。利奧逐漸成了一個(gè)盡職盡責(zé)的父親,我也體驗(yàn)到了有父親的滋味。

每天早上,如果天氣不好的話(huà),利奧便開(kāi)車(chē)送我去學(xué)校。讓父親開(kāi)車(chē)送到學(xué)校對(duì)我的同學(xué)來(lái)說(shuō)是習(xí)以為常的事,而我卻感到很美妙。周六上午,我們一起去逛五金店,然后又去雜貨店看看,給我哥哥買(mǎi)本體育雜志,也給我買(mǎi)點(diǎn)小東西。也許有人認(rèn)為,一起出去辦點(diǎn)兒事,不是什么了不得的事情??蓪?duì)于在孩童時(shí)代只能眼睜睜看著別人家享有這些日常快樂(lè)的我,卻從中獲得無(wú)窮的樂(lè)趣?;貞浲拢艺J(rèn)識(shí)到了利奧給了我最需要的東西,那就是體驗(yàn)全家一起做些日?,嵤碌目鞓?lè)。

一天,我們得知5年多來(lái)既沒(méi)看過(guò)也沒(méi)撫養(yǎng)過(guò)我和哥哥的生父現(xiàn)在卻想定期來(lái)看望我們。對(duì)曾與他共同生活過(guò)的日子,我們記憶猶新。他總是怒氣沖沖,冷酷無(wú)情,粗暴無(wú)禮,毫無(wú)愛(ài)心。我哥哥那時(shí)已經(jīng)17歲了,不須遵守家庭調(diào)解法的約束。而我還屬于未成年人,不得不去見(jiàn)法官。當(dāng)利奧、母親和我走進(jìn)法庭時(shí),我的生父已經(jīng)在那兒了。我避開(kāi)他的視線(xiàn),告訴法官我現(xiàn)在有了一個(gè)新家,利奧教我動(dòng)手做一些東西,帶我去看電影,還幫我做功課。我說(shuō)我再不想見(jiàn)我的生父,因?yàn)樗麖臎](méi)給過(guò)我愛(ài)或關(guān)心。法官看著利奧問(wèn)道:“情況怎么樣?”“好極了,”利奧回答說(shuō)。“我很幸運(yùn)有這樣一個(gè)家庭。”我生父的探視要求當(dāng)天就被駁回了;他從我的生活中消失了,我感到如釋重負(fù)。同時(shí)我也認(rèn)識(shí)到利奧已成了我最好的朋友。

最好的父母不也就是孩子們的好朋友嗎?他們毫無(wú)保留地承受撫養(yǎng)孩子的義務(wù),并讓孩子知道他們是可以信賴(lài)的。由繼父母和孩子組成的家庭沒(méi)有傳統(tǒng)紐帶的維系,所以他們之間建立的愛(ài)和友情是極為珍貴的。利奧“完美無(wú)缺”嗎?如果我這樣說(shuō),他會(huì)否認(rèn)的。這也正是他對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)如此“完美”的原因之一。在我們這個(gè)新家庭組建的頭幾年中,有時(shí)在溫暖的夏夜我從臥室朝窗外看,會(huì)看見(jiàn)利奧和我母親在屋前一起散步,那時(shí)我就會(huì)想:這就是我的雙親。我現(xiàn)在既有母親又有父親了。

我們搬到郊區(qū)后不久,一位新鄰居向我作了自我介紹。她已見(jiàn)過(guò)我的母親和利奧,“你知道嗎,”她說(shuō),“你長(zhǎng)得真像你父親。”我知道她只是在尋找交談的話(huà)題,但即使是這樣……“謝謝。”我說(shuō)。為什么要把真相告訴她呢?

 

NOTE 注釋?zhuān)?/span>

 

lawn [lC:n] n. 草地, 草坪

barbecue [5bB:bIkju:] n. 吃烤燒肉的野餐

split-level house 錯(cuò)層式地房子

browse [brauz] v. 隨意觀看

five-and-ten [`faIvEnd ten] n. 專(zhuān)售廉價(jià)物品的商店

savor [5seivE] vt. 盡情享受

stipulation [7stipju5leiFEn] n. 約定, 約束

 

 

 

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