戀愛(ài)物語(yǔ)教你如何結(jié)束糟糕的約會(huì)！

Step 1: Have a policy（制定約會(huì)政策）

Have a dating policy. Meeting for a weekday lunch will provide a limited time frame and a safe, public location.

Step1：制定約會(huì)政策。周末午餐約會(huì)給你提供有限的時(shí)間和安全的、公眾的約會(huì)地點(diǎn)。

Step 2: Be graceful（保持優(yōu)雅）

Be graceful and keep up your end of the conversation, even if sparks aren’t flying.

Step2 保持優(yōu)雅。約會(huì)期間一定要把談話(huà)進(jìn)行到底，即使你失去了熱情和激情！

Step 3: Remain tactful（保持機(jī)智）

Remain tactful. Express disappointment without negativity. Say, “I’m having a good time but I was hoping we’d have more chemistry.” If your date seems nervous and awkward, tell them you’re feeling the same way and suggest ending the date.

Step3 保持機(jī)智。不要消極地向?qū)Ψ奖磉_(dá)你的失望，你可以換種方式說(shuō)：“我玩的很開(kāi)心，但是我一直希望咱們之間能有更多來(lái)電的感覺(jué)。”如果你感覺(jué)約會(huì)很緊張很尷尬，就直接告訴對(duì)方，然后建議結(jié)束這場(chǎng)約會(huì)。

Step 4: Be honest（一定要真誠(chéng)）

Be honest at the end of a bad date and say why you don’t want to go out again. For instance, “You’re nice but we don’t have a lot in common.” Or, “You have interesting things to say but the conversation was more one-sided than I like.”

Step4 一定要真誠(chéng)。如果你不想約會(huì)就向?qū)Ψ秸f(shuō)明原因。比如：“你人很好，但是咱們沒(méi)有共同之處。”或“你是一個(gè)善于言談很有風(fēng)趣的人，但是我不喜歡每次談話(huà)都由一個(gè)人掌控。”

Step 5: Get up and leave（起身離開(kāi)）

Get up and leave if a date is touchy-feely, rude, abusive, or drunk

Step5起身離開(kāi)。如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)你的約會(huì)對(duì)象很煽情，粗魯，酗酒，還等什么，趕緊起身走人！