男人最討厭女人做的12件事

 

1. Not Sticking to Agreements   不守約定

When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.

一旦立下約定，女人往往會不遵守，或是按自己的需要更改，才不去管合不合時宜。

2. Keeping Their Feelings   隱藏自己的感受

It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.

老一套的觀點認為，女人會主動地分享她們的內(nèi)心感受。其實，女人會隱藏自己的感受，只有當她們被問到一定的時候，才肯將心里話傾出肺腑。

3. Try to Change Their Men    試圖改造自己的男人

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.

女人往往了解男人，可又不認同他們的行為方式。女人要么試圖改變他們以符合她們的需要，要么就徹底將他們?nèi)栽谝贿叀?/p>

4. Mate Comparison   比較伴侶

Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.

女人——有時不自覺地——會在說現(xiàn)任伴侶的缺點時，將前任伴侶拿出來做比較。但是實際上應該是比較優(yōu)點才對。

5. Belittling His Hobbies   貶損他的嗜好

Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.

每個人都有一兩種嗜好是他伴侶所不喜歡的。然而，你絕不應該禁止他去做。還有，絕不要強迫他選擇你的嗜好，因為你所傳達的信息就是：你的嗜好遠比他的重要。你不能傳達出這種信息。

6. Gossiping   八卦

While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad.

男人不喜歡女人八卦他們，無論是正面還是負面的，因為這看上去有傷男人的自尊。

7. Nagging   嘮叨

Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.

無論女人是不是出于好心，男人不喜歡女人總是叫他們做這個做那個嘮叨個沒完。

8. Interruption  打斷談話

Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension.

信不信由你，男人需要人與之交談。所以你最好聚精會神地去傾聽，而不要總想打斷。男人也不喜歡女人在聽他們講話時表現(xiàn)出不耐煩的樣子。如果你用不相干的事情打斷了他，你就可能在你們彼此之間制造出緊張氣氛。

9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented   解決問題型 vs. 交談型

Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.

男人喜歡直入主題，所以如果他們不想就某個具體話題談論幾個小時，你也不要不高興。

10. Beauty Conscious   臭美

Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.

男人不喜歡女人在鏡子前面大費時光地端詳自己，但其實，她們看上去還和往常一樣。

11. Paranoia  偏執(zhí)狂

Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.

男人不喜歡女人過分懷疑自己的外貌。要是你的男人不喜歡你的樣貌，他就不會和你在一起了。

12. Insecure/Jealously  多疑或嫉妒

Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.

你愛信不信，男人不喜歡愛吃醋的女人，哪怕只有一丁點。特別是當你們一起出去時，如果你抓住了他那到處游移的眼睛，并對此說了一句俏皮話，那其實這會使他大為光火的。