女人心目中的老公應(yīng)該具備哪10個(gè)特質(zhì)？

1. Confidence

自信

Confidence is the one thing women

consistently say they want in a man. Confidence is king. That means as long as you feel good about what you have to offer, and as long as you’re comfortable with yourself, you have a shot.

女人一直說(shuō)男人的自信是她們所喜歡的。自信就是王道，這意味著只要你對(duì)自己的付出感覺(jué)良好，只要你對(duì)自己滿意，你就有機(jī)會(huì)。

2. Ambition

野心

Men too often think that all women care about is money, but that’s

nonsense. The reason women gravitate toward men with successful careers is because their success at work is indicative of certain attractive personality traits: commitment, discipline, strong work ethic.

男人總是以為女人只在乎錢，簡(jiǎn)直是胡說(shuō)八道。女人被事業(yè)成功的男士吸引的原因是他們事業(yè)上的成功代表了他們會(huì)有一些迷人的品格：有擔(dān)當(dāng)、自律、良好的職業(yè)道德。

3. Sense of humor幽默感

A good sense of humor is one of the qualities women almost always mention when listing off the things they look for in a man. A good sense of humor just means you know how to tell and take a joke.

女人在列舉喜歡的男人的品格時(shí)總會(huì)提到幽默感，良好的幽默感就意味著你知道怎樣開玩笑，也開得起玩笑。

4. Passion

熱情

Women love to see that you’re passionate, because in their minds passion in one sphere of life that can be transferred into another sphere of life.

女人喜歡看到你充滿熱情，因?yàn)樵谒齻兛磥?lái)，對(duì)生活中一個(gè)方面的熱情可以轉(zhuǎn)移到其他方面。

5. Intelligence

智慧

Many women find smarts as sexy as physical appearance. Avoid running your mouth on subjects you know nothing about. Better to be suspected a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

很多女人認(rèn)為頭腦和外表一樣性感。對(duì)你一無(wú)所知的事情不要滿嘴跑火車，被人懷疑你很笨要比一張嘴說(shuō)話就讓人們消除這種疑慮好得多。

6. Sociability

善于交際

Women want a guy with a high social IQ. They just want to know you won’t go catatonic when faced with a group of people you don’t know.

女人喜歡社交智商高的男人，她們只是想知道你不會(huì)在面對(duì)一群陌生人時(shí)精神緊張。

7. Communication skills

溝通技巧

Sometimes, all a woman needs you to do is listen. This is hard for us guys, because we’re very “action-oriented.” If you can show a woman you have the capacity to pay attention to her, it will radically improve your chances.

有時(shí)女人只是需要你傾聽(tīng)，這對(duì)我們男人來(lái)說(shuō)很難，因?yàn)槲覀兛偸且孕袆?dòng)為主導(dǎo)。如果你能在女人面前表現(xiàn)出你能注意傾聽(tīng)，絕對(duì)能提高你成功的概率。

8. Positivity

積極

An optimistic person makes others feel good; his optimism can be contagious, even inspiring.

樂(lè)觀的人會(huì)使別人感覺(jué)良好，樂(lè)觀有感染力，甚至還能給人鼓勵(lì)。

9. Looks

外表

Women are much, much better looking than we are. They care about looks too. Try to keep yourself well-groomed. Wear clothes that fit, and at least make an effort to keep yourself in shape.

女人比我們男人漂亮得多，她們也在意別人的長(zhǎng)相。你要盡量穿著講究一點(diǎn)，穿合適的衣服，至少要努力保持好身材。

10. Independence

獨(dú)立

They want a guy who is capable and independent, able to make his own decisions, and cook dinner for himself. Despite what you might think, no woman wants to be your mother.

她們喜歡的男人要有能力、獨(dú)立、有主見(jiàn)，還要能自己做飯。不管你怎么想，但沒(méi)有女人想給你當(dāng)媽。