注意：這些信號證明他是花花公子!

Some players will be completely untactful about showing (or evenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women. Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is either trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that he's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign of a player).

3. He's uncurious about you as a person. 他并不在乎你的為人

Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficial characteristics. Usually a "player" type will want you because he's sexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that will help him know you better as a person.

4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special. 他不會為你準(zhǔn)備任何特別的驚喜，因為嫌麻煩

Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one of them. A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.

5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life. 他不想融入你的圈子

Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple.

Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in becoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.

Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!

So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try and change them - because they won't change!