英語辯論賽話題精選主題35:婚前性格檢測(cè)是否有助于彼此了解
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正方辯詞：
Marriage compatibility tests can help the couple understand each other better.
婚前性格檢測(cè)可以幫助男女方更好地了解彼此。
The right choice of a life and romantic partner has always been of primary importance for hurnan beings. Timely knowledge of the type of future relationships of the couple will help avoid mistakes.
對(duì)于我們來講，正確地選擇生活和伴侶一直是首要任務(wù)。及時(shí)了解未來雙方婚姻關(guān)系的特點(diǎn)將會(huì)幫助我們避免犯錯(cuò)。
The quality of the relationships in a given couple is predetermined by each partner's personal characteristics, and by his/her capability to develop optional behavior in the couple. Each one has a number of personal traits which substantially affect his/ her behavior in the couple. Besides, some other factors such as, educational level, religiosity, financial status, origin, etc. are supposed to exert influence upon the couple relationships.
情侶在婚后關(guān)系如何，可以通過雙方的性格以及戀愛期間最佳行為表現(xiàn)的能力預(yù)測(cè)出來。每個(gè)人都有自己的個(gè)性特點(diǎn)，而這些性格會(huì)極大地影響個(gè)人在戀愛中的行為表現(xiàn)。另外，其他一些因素，如教育程度，宗教信仰，經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況及出身背景等等，都會(huì)對(duì)情侶婚后關(guān)系產(chǎn)生一定的影響。
The compatibility tests enable the couple to better understand each other before marriage so as to adapt to the partner to enhance the relationship. It is through the efforts from both parties that they achieve a happy family.
婚前性格檢查能讓情侶們更好的了解彼此，以適應(yīng)對(duì)方，增進(jìn)婚后感情。經(jīng)過雙方的共同努力，相信他們能夠組建一個(gè)幸福美滿的家庭。
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Marriage is not a gamble.
婚姻不是賭博。
There is no denying that compatible personalities of the couple are necessary for a happy family. Although we can't change basic personality, we can improve behavior. We will turn out more compatible with our mates through learning to adapt to each other.
不可否認(rèn)，雙方個(gè)性的和諧是婚后幸福必不可少的條件。雖然本性難改，但我們可以改善自己的行為態(tài)度。通過努力彼此適應(yīng)后，雙方將會(huì)更加和睦。
When you love someone, the differences don't matter as much. Compatibility is not effective enough to bond you two together for a lifetime. As people get older, their preferences change and their compatibility might change as well. If there is true love involved, they wil understand those differences and concentrate on the things they enjoy doing together.
當(dāng)你愛上某人的時(shí)候，你并不會(huì)在意彼此的差異。因此，性格合與不合對(duì)于決定共度一生的情侶來說并不會(huì)產(chǎn)生太大的影響。隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，人們的喜好會(huì)有所改變，從而情侶間的和諧程度也隨之變化。如果是真心相愛，夫妻之間會(huì)理解彼此的不同并專注于兩人共同的喜好上。
No amount of tests can save a marriage, and the onus lies on the two individuals to the marriage work. It is all about your beliefs in the marriage system.
測(cè)試并不能說明什么，只有雙方的責(zé)任感才能成就段婚姻。如何做完全取決于個(gè)人對(duì)于婚姻制度的看法。
