Quora精選：為什么他被我拒絕后就離開了？

I just met this guy, he said he really likes me and wants to date me. I told him I don't have any special feeling for him yet, and it is too fast.我只是和他剛認(rèn)識(shí)，他就說他真的很喜歡我，想和我交往。我說我對(duì)他并沒有什么特殊的感覺，而且這進(jìn)展太快了。He told me it was okay, but never contacted me again. What does this mean?他告訴我這沒什么，但是他再也沒有聯(lián)系過我。他什么意思？

 

獲得941好評(píng)的答案@Sudarshana Bhattacharya

Stop looking at men as just some male creature and start respecting them as human beings. To be honest, this guy is really a gentleman. He didn't bother you anymore after you rejected him. If you're interested in him, ask him out confidently. There's zero shame in that. If you believe that he should keep trying despite your arrogant refusals then I'm sorry to say that you're not eligible for him. And I'm even more sorry to say that he must have found some true lady by this time who treats him like a king.不要把男人看做單純的雄性生物，你應(yīng)該要把他們作為人類來尊重，說實(shí)話，這個(gè)男人真的很紳士，在你拒絕他之后就沒有來騷擾你。如果你對(duì)他有興趣，你可以自信地邀請(qǐng)他去約會(huì)，這沒什么好丟臉的。如果你認(rèn)為他應(yīng)該不顧你傲慢的拒絕，而是要繼續(xù)追求你，那么很遺憾，我要說，你跟他不合適。不僅如此，我還要說，他現(xiàn)在一定找到了那位真心待他、尊重他的女士。

 

獲得2.4k好評(píng)的答案@Karthika Krishnakumar

And get more humiliated by you.然后再讓你羞辱他。Great.那真是太棒了。A person can be either selfish or dumb. But when both those attributes are seen in one person I don't know what to say.一個(gè)人可能是自私也可能是傻，但是如果一個(gè)人又自私又傻，我就不知道說什么好了。You expressed your feelings of not loving him. He respected that and never contacted you again.That's it.你向他表示你不愛他，他尊重你，所以不再與你聯(lián)系，就是這樣。Stop expecting guys to run behind you after you have rejected them.別指望有人會(huì)在你拒絕他之后還屁顛屁顛跟在你后面。

 

獲得759好評(píng)的答案@Janine White

It means that he respects you. You told him that you're not interested in him and he took you at your word, which he should. If you've changed your mind and want to go out with him, then invite him out on a date.這說明他尊重你。你告訴他你對(duì)他沒興趣，而他把你的話當(dāng)真了。如果你改變主意想和他去約會(huì)，那就去邀請(qǐng)他。

 

獲得372好評(píng)的答案@Prachi Ahuja

Oh God !天哪！If he would have contacted you again and again and again then you would have posted a question saying如果他不停地騷擾你，那你就會(huì)在網(wǎng)上這么說I just met a guy. I told him I am not interested still he keeps poking me and acts like a stalker.what do I do?我剛認(rèn)識(shí)個(gè)男的，我都已經(jīng)說了對(duì)他沒興趣可他一直纏著我，像個(gè)跟蹤狂一樣，我該怎么辦？You asked him to leave and he left..Why are you posting stupid questions now?你讓他離開，他就離開。你現(xiàn)在又為什么要問這么蠢的問題呢？I mean what you expect…h(huán)e should beg you and ask you to stay with him…我知道你想要什么······你覺得他應(yīng)該求著你和他在一起······You are a kind of a girl who is never satisfied你這種女孩永遠(yuǎn)不知道滿足

 

獲得3.7k好評(píng)的答案@Alison Bennett

It means he respected your wishes not to bother you. If you want him to pay attention, tell him. Don't make him guess. That's very unfair.這說明他尊重你的意愿，所以不再打擾你。如果你想要引起他的注意，那就告訴他。不要讓他猜你的心思，那不公平。

 

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