Giving a Gift 禮尚往來(lái)
dialogue 1
Sara: Jessica is going back to Holland next week. I've been thinking a lot about what to give her as a parting gift, but I still have no clue.
杰西卡下周就要會(huì)荷蘭了,我一直在想該選個(gè)東西作為分別的禮物,但是還沒(méi)有頭緒.
Nick: is that the girl you spent almost every weekend with?
是那個(gè)你哦幾乎每周都和她在一起的女孩嗎?
S: yeah, that's her. We had a lot of wonderful times together. She is really a special friend, and I want to get her something meaningful.
嗯,就是她.我們?cè)谝黄鹩羞^(guò)很多快樂(lè)的時(shí)光.她是一個(gè)很特別的朋友,我想送給她一件有意義的禮物.
N: I am not good at picking gifts. Maybe you can ask if there's anything she needs to make it easier?
我也不太會(huì)挑禮物.要不你先問(wèn)問(wèn)她想要什么,這樣就能容易點(diǎn)兒?
S: I don't think so. That way it would lose all the charm. I want it to be a surprise. I want to show her that I care about her and I hope our friendship will last.
不要這樣,否則就沒(méi)有意思了.我想給她個(gè)驚喜,想讓她知道我很珍惜她,希望我們的友誼能夠持久.
N: yeah, that's nice.
嗯,這樣不錯(cuò).
S: hmm, I think I've got an idea. Maybe I can get her an ever-green plant to take back home.
我有主意了.或許我可以送給她一盆長(zhǎng)青的植物帶回家去.
N: a plant? That's creative. I'm sure ever time she waters it she'll think of you. But there is a problem. Do you think it'll be able to go through the customs?
一盆植物?挺有創(chuàng)意的,我相信她澆水的時(shí)候總能想起你.但是有一個(gè)問(wèn)題,你覺(jué)得植物能過(guò)海關(guān)嗎?
S: I hope so. I'll make sure to get a small one so she can put it into her suitcase. I hope it won't cause her trouble at the border.
希望吧.我會(huì)選個(gè)小的,這樣她就能放在箱子里面了,我不想過(guò)海關(guān)的時(shí)候給她惹麻煩.
N: I don't know. I think the idea of a plant going across borders with a friend is really exciting but maybe seeds would be safer. You don't want to get her in trouble.
不清楚.我覺(jué)得送朋友植物,帶著它穿越國(guó)界,這想法本身就讓人特別興奮.但是可能種子會(huì)更安全一些吧,你畢竟不想給她帶來(lái)麻煩.
dailogue 2
Elizabeth: Hi, Bob, everything okay?
嗨,鮑勃,一切都還好吧?
Bob: more or less. There;s just one thing bothering me.
還好.就是最近有件事比較煩.
E: oh? What's that?
哦?什么事?
B: well, you know I have some students studying for their master's degree. One of them tried to give me a gift that kinda made me uneasy.
你知道我?guī)Я藥讉€(gè)研究生,有一個(gè)想送我一件禮物,讓我覺(jué)得很不舒服.
E: what gift?
什么禮物?
B: it's an Egyptian carpet. The student came to my office the other day and brought the carpet to show his gratitude. Seeing what gift was, I was really uncomfortable. I mean it's too expensive a gift for a student to give a professor. I don't think I've done anything to deserve that gift, so I refused it.
一條埃及地毯.有一天,那個(gè)學(xué)生帶著地毯來(lái)我的辦公室,要送給我以表謝意.看到禮物是什么以后,我覺(jué)得很別扭,對(duì)學(xué)生而言,這件禮物太昂貴了.我覺(jué)得自己沒(méi)做什么,不是是不敢當(dāng),所以就拒絕了
E: you refused the gift? That's terrible.
你拒絕了,這可有點(diǎn)兒不好啊.
B: I know, but I really can't accept such an expensive gift. I explained to him why, but he seemed really upset about it. I think he might have taken it the wrong way.
我知道,但我真的不能接受這樣一件昂貴的禮物.我跟他解釋了為什么,但他看起來(lái)很難過(guò).我擔(dān)心他可能誤會(huì)了.
E: perhaps. He probably thinks you considered the gift a bribe for a higher grade.
有可能.他可能認(rèn)為你把這個(gè)禮物看成是他對(duì)你的賄賂,這樣你就會(huì)給他更高的分?jǐn)?shù).
B: that's what I am worried about. I do understand the respect attached with the gift and I am honored. But I really don't think it's proper for a student to spend a fortune in a gift for a professor. I think we need to have a talk to make sure we are on the same page.
我就是擔(dān)心這個(gè).我明白他送我禮物是為了表示尊重,我也覺(jué)得很榮幸.但是我確實(shí)覺(jué)得學(xué)生花一大筆錢給教授送禮物很不合適.我想我應(yīng)該和他談?wù)?確保我們的理解是一致的.