你必須控制并導(dǎo)引你的情緒而非摧毀它,況且摧毀情緒是一件不可能的事情。情緒就像河流一樣,你可以筑一道堤 防把它擋起來,并在控制和導(dǎo)引之下排放它,但卻不能永遠(yuǎn)抑制它,否則那道堤防遲早會(huì)崩潰,并造成大災(zāi)難。
Your negative emotions can also be controlled and directed. PMA and self-discipline can remove their harmful effects and make them serve constructive purposes. Sometimes fear and anger will inspire intense action. But you must always submit your negative emotions--and you positive ones--to the examination of your reason before releasing them. Emotion without reason is a dreadful enemy.
你的消極心態(tài)同樣也可被控制和導(dǎo)引,積極心態(tài)和自律 可去除其中有害的部分,而使這些消極心態(tài)能為目標(biāo)貢獻(xiàn)力 量。有的時(shí)候恐懼和生氣會(huì)激發(fā)出更徹底的行動(dòng),但是在你釋放消極情緒(以及積極情緒)之前務(wù)必要讓你的理性為它們做一番檢驗(yàn),缺乏理性的情緒必然是一位可怕的敵人。
What faculty provides the crucial balance between emotions and reason? It is your willpower, or ego, a subject which will be explored in more detail below. Self-discipline will teach you to throw your willpower behind either reason or emotion and amplify the intensity of their expression.
是什么力量使得情緒和理性之間能夠達(dá)到平衡呢?是意志力或自尊心(我將在以下做更詳細(xì)的說明)。自律會(huì)教導(dǎo)你的意志力作為理性和情緒的后盾,并強(qiáng)化二者的表現(xiàn)強(qiáng)度。
Both your heart and your mind need a master, and they can find the master in your ego. However, your ego will fill their role only if you use self-discipline. In the absence of self-discipline, your mind and heart will fight their battles as they please. In this situation the person within whose mind the fight is carried out often gets badly hurt.
你的感情和理智都需要一位主宰,而在你的自尊心里就可發(fā)現(xiàn)這個(gè)主宰,然而只有你在發(fā)揮你的自律精神時(shí),自尊心才會(huì)扮演好這個(gè)角色,如果沒有了自律,你的理智和感情便會(huì)隨心所欲地進(jìn)行戰(zhàn)爭,戰(zhàn)爭結(jié)果當(dāng)然是你會(huì)受到嚴(yán)重的傷害。