一生中最重要的技能

What is the most valuable skill a person can have for their entire life?

人的一生中最重要的的技能是什么?

獲得15.1k好評(píng)的答案@Abhishek Padmasale

The ability to express your thoughts.

表達(dá)自己想法的能力。

Seriously, I believe this is something most of us lack. It's extremely important for a person to learn to put into words, what he thinks. It makes a relationship last. It creates an impression on the person you're talking to. It gives you a chance to explore what others think about your ideas. It lets you answer questions on Quora in a way other people understand.

說真的，我認(rèn)為這是我們大部分人所缺乏的。對(duì)于一個(gè)人來說，學(xué)著用語言來表達(dá)自己的想法是非常重要的——這能讓一段關(guān)系維持下去，能讓和你說話的人產(chǎn)生一種印象，給你一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)去探索別人對(duì)你的想法所抱有的看法，能讓你在Quora上以其他人能夠明白的方式回答問題。

Although I'm no expert, I can say that you can always develop this skill simply by learning to talk without fear. Talk to a stranger, a fellow passenger on a train or your child-hood crush, they won't mind (I'm not sure about your crush, though). That way, you'll be forced to express your thoughts as clearly as possible. And that's exactly how you learn the art of expressing yourself and your ideas!

盡管我不是專家，但是我能說你可以通過學(xué)會(huì)毫無畏懼地談話來鍛煉這個(gè)技能。去和陌生人、一起坐火車的乘客或者童年時(shí)的女神/男神交談，他們不會(huì)介意的(不過我不確定你的女神/男神介不介意)。這種方式能逼迫你盡可能地表達(dá)你的想法，而且這也確實(shí)能讓你學(xué)到表現(xiàn)自我和自己想法的藝術(shù)!

So, go out, talk to someone. Unleash your mind. Express yourself!

所以，走出門去和人交談，釋放你的內(nèi)心，展現(xiàn)自我!

獲得5.7k好評(píng)的答案@Jon Mixon

The ability to tell a good story - If most people are honest, the people who they remember most in their lives are people who could tell them a great story. You are going to meet a lot of people in an average lifetime and while you'll forget most of them, you'll always remember the good storytellers.

講好故事的能力——如果大部分人都做到誠實(shí)，那么在生活中，他們記得最牢的人是能給他們講個(gè)好故事的人。在一生中你會(huì)遇到許許多多的人，但是你會(huì)忘記他們之中的大部分，卻一直記住那些很會(huì)講故事的人。

獲得4.3k好評(píng)的答案@Abhinav Krishna

Self-Discipline

自律

The skill is to motivate oneself constantly and to never lose track of one's goals and to work constantly towards them. Mastering oneself is the key to achieving one's dreams and the only way one can master oneself is through self-discipline.

這種技能就是不停地激勵(lì)自我、永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)迷失自己的目標(biāo)并且不停地朝著目標(biāo)努力。自我控制是實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想的關(guān)鍵，而自律是我們控制自我的唯一方式。

獲得3.4k好評(píng)的答案@Shruti Chopade

The ability to accept.

接受的能力。

Accept that life can't always be the way you want.

接受那并不盡如人意的生活。

Accept that everyone in the world can't behave the way you want them to.

接受世界上每一個(gè)不按你希望來表現(xiàn)的人。

Accept that you can't keep everyone happy.

接受你無法取悅每一個(gè)人。

Accept that unrealistic goals can never be achieved.

接受不切實(shí)際的目標(biāo)永遠(yuǎn)無法實(shí)現(xiàn)。

Accept that you can't change things which are not in your hands.

接受你無法改變不為你掌握的事情。

Accept that worrying won't do any good.

接受擔(dān)心憂慮沒有任何好處。

Accept that your happiness lies in your hands.

接受你的幸福掌握在你自己手中。

If we accept these, life will be much simpler.

如果我們能接受這些，生活將會(huì)簡(jiǎn)單得多。