單身是比較好的升值期 Single is The Best Time to Improve Yourself

Nowadays, many people are single in their twenties and they feel anxious as many people around them are married, they think they also should get married, especially for girls. Some of them choose to get married with the one seems suitable in a hurry, while some complain that there is no boy for them to fall in love and they will be single forever. They are wrong, because they do not realize the fact that single is the best time to improve yourself.

如今，很多二十多歲的人還是單身，他們因此而感到焦慮，因?yàn)樗麄兩磉叺拇蟛糠秩硕冀Y(jié)婚了，他們覺(jué)得他們也應(yīng)該結(jié)婚了，特別是女孩子。所有有一部分人就選擇與一個(gè)看似合適的對(duì)象匆忙結(jié)婚，有一部分則自怨自艾沒(méi)有男孩子給她們談戀愛(ài)，要注定孤獨(dú)終老。她們真的太錯(cuò)了，因?yàn)樗齻儧](méi)看清楚這個(gè)事實(shí)，單是是最好的升值期。

First of all, when you are in the single status, you don’t need to take your time to your new family or take your boyfriend’s bad mood into consideration. You have control all your time. You can arrange it all for yourself. If you want to go to the gym, party, travel, make new friends or read books, you can do it. Or you want to master some new skills, then you can do it now, because you have time.

首先，在你單身的時(shí)候你不用花時(shí)間去處理這個(gè)新組建起來(lái)的家庭問(wèn)題，也不用去考慮男朋友的情緒問(wèn)題。你對(duì)自己的時(shí)間有著完全控制權(quán)。你可以為自己自由安排這些時(shí)間。如果你想去健身，去參加聚會(huì)，去旅游，去結(jié)交新朋友或者看書(shū)，就去吧?；蛘吣阆雽W(xué)習(xí)新技能，現(xiàn)在也可以去做了，因?yàn)槟阌械氖菚r(shí)間。

Secondly, when you try to improve yourself and you actually do it, you will feel that you are a better person than before. So do the people around you. And when you are better, you will meet better people, then you may meet your Mr. Right. Besides, if you get improved, you will feel happier. You don’t need to self-denial or bow to the reality for now. You can take this chance to be a better person.

其次，當(dāng)你試圖提升自我的時(shí)候，而且你也確實(shí)做了，你就會(huì)感到自己與之前的自己相比，好了很多。你周?chē)娜艘矔?huì)這樣覺(jué)得的。而且，當(dāng)你變得更好的時(shí)候，你也會(huì)遇到更好的人，也許就認(rèn)識(shí)了你的真命天子了。除此之外，如果你提升了自我，你也會(huì)更開(kāi)心的。所以，現(xiàn)在你沒(méi)有必要進(jìn)行自我否定或者屈服于現(xiàn)實(shí)。你可以抓住這次機(jī)會(huì)成為更好的人。