A Good Listener 好的聆聽者

Can you believe that a boy who is about 8 years old is the master of giving advice on love relationship? This funny incident happened in America. A little boy was doing his business on the street, he earned just one dollar each person. Of course, people did not come for advice, and all they needed was a good listener.

你能相信一個8歲左右的男孩是愛情專家么?這個有趣的事件發(fā)生在美國。一個小男孩正在街上做他的生意，他從每個客人身上得到一美元。當(dāng)然人們不是來聽他的建議，他們需要的是一個忠實的聆聽者。

Most people feel depressed today. In the public occasion, the powerful person is in charge of everything, who is the shinning star and enjoys to be followed by others. While most people have less chance to express themselves. Sometimes they need to listen to their inner voices, that’s why the little boy’s business is favored.

如今很多人都會有些抑郁。在公共場合，一些有頭有臉的人平時都是主管一切，是耀眼的明星，享受著別人的崇拜。然而大多數(shù)人都缺少訴說情緒的機(jī)會。有時候他們也需要傾聽自己內(nèi)心的聲音，這就是小男孩的生意受到青睞的原因。

To be a good listener can help us to learn things. Once a celebrity said that a good listener was not only popular everywhere, but after a while he also got to know something. When we learn to know how others feel about the same incident, we start to consider the way we deal with it. Am I too forced? Or do I forget others? So we can know better how to deal with things next time.

成為一個好的聆聽者可以幫助我們學(xué)到一些東西。曾經(jīng)一個名人說過，一個好的傾聽者不僅是受歡迎的，一段時間后，他也學(xué)到了東西。當(dāng)我們慢慢知道不同的人對同一件事的不同看法，我們也會開始考慮自己的處理方式是否得當(dāng)。我是不是太強(qiáng)勢了?或者我是否遺忘別的因素了?因此，我們可以知道下次如何把事情處理得更好。