大學生必做的十六件事情

導讀：美國的文化教育一向很看重學生的綜合素質(zhì)。四年大學生涯，大學生的身份不僅僅是學生，他們把大學視作從學生到成人的轉(zhuǎn)型期。他們的活動已不僅僅限于青蔥校園內(nèi)，他們通過互聯(lián)網(wǎng)出售創(chuàng)意、從大一開始積累各種經(jīng)驗:自我心態(tài)的調(diào)整、處事能力的提升到與人相處的技巧。在生活中，既要當好演員，也要當好觀眾;在大學中，既要當好學生，也要當好初涉社會的預備人才。

Get out of the library. You can have a degree and a huge GPA and not be ready for the workplace. A student should plan that college is four years of experience rather than 120 credits.

第一，走出圖書館。就算有了學位和很高的GPA， 你也不見得就為工作做好了準備。作為一名學生，應該把大學生涯看作是四年人生經(jīng)驗而非只是一堆學分來好好計劃。

Start a business in your 1)dorm room. It's cheap， Google and Yahoo are dying to buy your website， and it's better than washing dishes in the 2)cafeteria.

第二，從宿舍開始做生意。這很便宜，谷歌、雅虎都會爭先恐后地收購你的網(wǎng)站，這比在大學食堂里洗盤子好多了。

Get involved on campus. When it comes to career succes emotional 3)intelligence—social skills to read and lead others—gets you farther than knowledge or job 4)competence.

第三，積極參加校園活動。論及事業(yè)成功，情商——具有讀懂并領導別人的社交技能——比起知識或工作能力，對你更有幫助。

Play a sport. People who play sports earn more money than 5)couch potatoes， and women 6)executives who played sports 7)attribute much of their career success to their athletic experience. You don't need to be great at sport you just need to be part of a team.

第四，參加體育運動。玩運動的人要比整天看電視的人收入高。參加過體育運動的女性行政人員事業(yè)成功的原因很大程度上要歸功于其運動經(jīng)歷。你無需在運動上表現(xiàn)出色，而只需參與其中。

Separate your expectations from those of your parents. Otherwise you wake up and realize you're not living your own life.

第五，別遵循父母的期待生活。否則你醒來后會發(fā)現(xiàn)你過的不是屬于自己的生活。

Try new things that you're not good at. Ditch the superstar mentality that if you don't reach the top， become president， get an A+， or get promoted to editor-in-chief， then the efforts were worthless. It's important to learn to enjoy things without getting 8)recognition.

第六，嘗試一些你并不擅長的新事物。拋棄那些名韁利鎖:覺得如果不能成為第一名，當不了學生會主席，拿不了A+的優(yōu)異成績，或晉升到總編的位置，那么一切努力都是無意義的。重要的是學著去享受那些無需他人贊賞肯定的事情。

Define success for yourself. Society defines success very narrowly. Rather than defining success as financial gain or 9)accolades， define it in terms of individual interests and personal happiness.

第七，自己定義成功。社會對成功的定義很狹隘。與其把成功定義為經(jīng)濟上的收獲或嘉獎，不如將其定義為個人興趣和快樂所在。