外國人最想和你聊的文化話題：網絡上的戀愛

     Some say the cyber love is as pretty as the fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up; some say cyber love is so virtual that it is impossible to win the lover's heart...
     有人說:網戀很美，美得如同絢麗多彩的夢讓人不忍醒來；也有人說:網戀太虛，虛得讓你永遠也抓不住網線那端愛人的心......
     No matter young, old, single, married, talented or reckless, everyone may get involved in the cyber love. We can obtain the love which is difficult to find by merely a mouth, without investment of money or bearing too much burden or responsibility, you may also please yourself and others.
     無論是年輕的、年老的、未婚的、已婚的、才華橫溢的、魯莽愚笨的等等，任何人都可以網戀，大家單憑一張嘴，就可以得到那朵世間難尋的愛情小花，一不用金錢投資，二不會有太多的拖累與責任，三還能愉人愉己......
     What I want to say is why not? No matter in reality or on the Internet, they're actually the same. You may receive the true feelings only if you have given out your true heart.
     我想說，為什么不呢？不管是在現實生活中還是在網上，其實都是一樣的，只有你付出真心才有可能得到真情。
     Nowadays, we are living in a network age; most of us are busy working all day. But we contact with network almost any time, therefore, if you will come across the one you want to pay your true heart one day, and then why not deduce a romantic cyber love?
     現如今是網絡時代，我們大多忙于工作，但幾乎無時無刻不與網絡打交道。因此，如果緣分來了，上演一場順水推舟的網戀也不失為一件浪漫的事。
     On the contrary, one of my classmate got true love through chatting on QQ, furthermore they have married to each other and now they are very affectionate. From this example, it is possible to get true love through cyber love.
     我還有一位同學就是經過網戀得到了真愛，而且還結了婚，現在兩人感情很好。從這個例子來看，認真對待網戀也有修成正果的可能。
     In a word, true love may be found everywhere as long as Cupid has shot an arrow for you!
     因此，真愛不一定會在什么地方遇到，就看月老給你把線牽到哪兒了。
     The answer is different for separate person.
     我想對不同的人來講，這個問題的答案是不一樣的。
     In my opinion, everyone has the right to get involved in the cyber love, because it can please yourself and others after all. But we must keep an eye on the other side of the network to prevent cheating. Besides, we all shall enhance our moral. If you have married, you had better not fool others.
     從我的觀點來看，任何人都可以網戀，因為畢竟它能娛人娛己。但是要加強警惕，防止受騙。另外，要加強自身道德修養(yǎng)，如果是已婚人士，還是不要把對方搞得暈頭轉向為好。
     Actually, the Internet is a kind of virtual world, we can do most of things through Internet. For instance, shopping, chat, game, work, and so on, many field used by internet. So, fall in love by the Internet is very normal.
     因特網實際是一個虛擬的世界，我們可以通過它做很多事情，比如，購物、聊天、游戲、工作等等，很多領域都要用到它，所以網上戀愛是很平常的。
     I think the cyber love is very good for us, yes, I quite agree with that. First of all, if you are very tired for love in real world, you can try the cyber love. Yes, as we know, the love in real world that we need always consider lots of things, and the love is very complex. So, let people feel so tired. But for the cyber love, we always feel easy to find the feeling or something like that which what we want. So most people prefer to choosing the cyber love when they are tired in the real world.
     我覺得網戀不錯，我很贊同。因為，如果我們在現實生活中愛得很累，那我們可以嘗試網戀。我們都知道，現實中的戀愛要考慮很多事情，而且很復雜，所以才讓人們感到很累。但是，對于網戀，我們總是可以很輕松地找到我們想要的那種感覺或類似感覺的那種東西。
     As a matter of fact, the Internet is virtual, so, that exist some distance between us. So remember don't take serious of that!
     事實上，因特網是虛擬的，所以，因特網和我們之間還是有一定的距離。所以，記住不要把網戀當真。
     Recall my college ages, a classmate of mine ever devoted all his energies to the cyber love. Even to must fly to Shanghai to see his love from Beijing. It turned out that his love was never there. My classmate couldn't connect with his love from then on. He became very lost later. So his taking the cyber love for serious gave him only being deceived.
     記得當年我的大學時代，有一個同學曾經深陷于網戀不能自拔，發(fā)展到最后一定要從北京到上海去見網友，結果白跑了一趟，沒見著。我的這位同學和他的網友也從此失去了聯系，人也變得很消沉，經過好長一段時間才恢復正常。可見，認真的結果是被欺騙。
     One of my cousins met her Mr. Right on the Internet at her age of 24, the man is from Nanjing, but she was in Qingdao. They fell in love gradually by communicating online. We have to say they are too far from each other, but confronting their earnest love, the distance between them is nothing. Along with all the relatives' blessings, they held their wedding last year and now living a very happy life.
     我一個堂姐在她24歲的時候，在網上偶遇她現在的丈夫。一開始他們就有很多共同語言，很快墜入愛河。她丈夫是南京人，而她是青島的，離得的確有點遠，但這個距離在他們真摯的愛情面前又算得了什么呢？帶著所有親友的祝福，他們在去年舉行了婚禮，現在也生活得很幸福。
     Yes, the cyber love can easy let people to feel without any pressure, let them always feel relaxed. But this is virtual world, we can't take that for serious, because we are in the real world, we should face and admit it. So, you can take the cyber to be a part of your life, but don't take serious.
     是的，網戀容易讓人們沒有壓力，讓人們感覺很輕松，但這只是虛擬的世界，我們不能當真的，因為我們生活在現實世界里，我們要面對現實和接受現實。所以你可以把網戀當成你生活的一部分，但不能認真。