https://online2.tingclass.net/lesson/shi0529/0009/9147/45.mp3
https://image.tingclass.net/statics/js/2012
Women, I feel I can say this authoritatively, especially at Barnard where they can't hear us, whatam I talking about? They professionally can't hear us. Women are better at acting than men.Why? Because we have to be, successfull convincing someone bigger than you are ofsomething he doesn't want to know is a survival skill, this is how women have survivedthrough the millennia. Pretending is not just play. Pretending is imagined possibility. Pretendingor acting is a very valuable life skill and we all do it. All the time, we don't want to be caughtdoing it but nevertheless it's part of the adaptations of our species, we change who we areto fit the exigencies of our time, and not just strategicaly, or to our own advantage,sometimes sympathetically, without our even knowing it for the betterment of the wholegroup.
關(guān)于女性,我認為我可以很權(quán)威地這樣說,特別是在巴納德,他們聽不見我們說,我想說的是什么呢?他們真的聽不到我們說什么。我想說的是女性比男性更擅長表演。為什么這么說呢?因為女性必須如此,成功說服某人相信他不想知道的事,尤其是當他比你地位高時,是一種生存技能,是千百年來女性賴以求生的方式。假裝并不只是游戲,假裝是想象的可能性,假裝或表演是我們都需要的非常寶貴的一種生活技能。我們每個都在假裝。我們從不希望被人發(fā)現(xiàn)是在假裝,但它確實是人類適應(yīng)生存的能力的一部分。我們可以改變自己以適應(yīng)時代的一切危急情況,并不只是出于生存考慮,也不只是為了讓自己有利可圖,有時我們只是出于同情,甚至不會意識到這是為了團體的進步。s