第67期:父母的十一種習(xí)慣會影響孩子的一生
今天我們學(xué)學(xué)父母對孩子的影響。
1.If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
如果你的孩子總是故意打擾你，其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟愫退狈χw接觸，缺乏親密感。
2.If your child is lying, it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.
如果你的孩子撒謊，其實(shí)這說明你曾經(jīng)對他犯過的錯誤反應(yīng)過度。
3.If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
如果你的孩子缺乏自信心，其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟阃鶅A向于告訴他們怎么做，而非鼓勵他們自己做。
4.If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
如果你的孩子不敢捍衛(wèi)自己的權(quán)利，其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟阍谒麄冃r(shí)候總是在公開場合訓(xùn)斥他們。
5.If you buy everything for your children still they take things that do not belong to them, it is because you don't let them choose.
如果你什么東西都給孩子買，但他們依舊去拿那些不屬于他們的東西，這其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟悴蛔屗麄冏约哼x擇想要的東西。
6.If your child is a coward, it is because you help them too quickly. Don't remove every obstacle from their path.
如果你的孩子很懦弱，那其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟憧偸窃谒麄冇龅嚼щy時(shí)就立刻幫忙。不要把孩子成長道路上的每個障礙都掃清。
7.If your child is jealous, the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重，那可能是因?yàn)槟憧偸悄脛e的孩子和他們比較。
8.If your child gets angry quickly, the reason might be you have not praised them enough. They only get attention misbehaving.
如果你的孩子很容易生氣，那其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟憬o他們的贊揚(yáng)不夠，他們只能靠做些失禮的事來吸引你的注意力。
9.If your child doesn't respect others' feelings, the reason might be you always order them-not giving importance to their feelings.
如果你的孩子不會尊重別人的感受，那是因?yàn)槟憧偸敲钏麄儯且驗(yàn)槟悴蛔鹬厮麄兊母惺堋?br />10.If your child is secretive, the reason is you blow things very big.
如果你的孩子總是神神秘秘的，什么都不告訴你，那是因?yàn)槟憧偸菒鄞驌羲麄儭?br />11.If the child behaves rudely, it is learnt from parents or others living with them.
如果你的孩子總是行為粗魯沒禮貌，那其實(shí)是從家長或者身邊的人那里學(xué)來的。
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