每個(gè)人從生下來都在接受對(duì)比,學(xué)會(huì)對(duì)比。上學(xué)時(shí)比成績(jī),比才藝。高考時(shí)比學(xué)校,畢業(yè)后比工作。談戀愛時(shí)比對(duì)象,工作后便開始收入,比職位,比房子,比車子。結(jié)婚生子后,又開始比孩子,循環(huán)往復(fù),周而復(fù)始。
對(duì)比本身沒有太大問題,古人云:見賢思齊焉,見不賢而內(nèi)自省也。意思是幾個(gè)人在一起,其中必有一人是可以學(xué)習(xí)的能者,選擇他的長(zhǎng)處學(xué)習(xí),看見沒有德行的人,自己就要反省是否有和他一樣的錯(cuò)誤。
但是我們很多人在對(duì)比中,要么變得自卑焦慮,停滯不前,且變得抑郁。要么變得暗自竊喜,得意忘形,甚至嘲諷別人。今天這首小詩(shī)很好的解決了這個(gè)問題,它告訴我們:每個(gè)人都有屬于自己的時(shí)區(qū),不要將自己盲目地和他人比較。
New Words:
secure: vt.保護(hù); (使) 獲得; 使安全; 擔(dān)保;
Federal leaders continued their efforts to secure a ceasefire
聯(lián)邦領(lǐng)導(dǎo)人繼續(xù)爭(zhēng)取促成?;饏f(xié)議。
mock vt.& vi.愚弄,嘲弄
I thought you were mocking me
我還以為你是在嘲笑我。
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
紐約時(shí)間比加州時(shí)間早三個(gè)小時(shí),
but it does not make California slow.
但加州時(shí)間并沒有變慢。
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
有人22歲就畢業(yè)了,
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
但等了五年才找到好的工作!
Someone became a CEO at 25,
有人25歲就當(dāng)上CEO,
and died at 50.
卻在50歲去世。
While another became a CEO at 50,
也有人遲到50歲才當(dāng)上CEO,
and lived to 90 years.
然后活到90歲。
Someone is still single,
有人依然單身,
while someone else got married.
同時(shí)也有人已婚。
Obama retires at 55,
奧巴馬55歲就退休,
but Trump starts at 70.
川普70歲才開始當(dāng)總統(tǒng)。
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
世上每個(gè)人本來就有自己的發(fā)展時(shí)區(qū)。
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
身邊有些人看似走在你前面,
some might seem to be behind you.
也有人看似走在你后面。
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
但其實(shí)每個(gè)人在自己的時(shí)區(qū)有自己的步程。
Don't envy them or mock them.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他們。
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
他們都在自己的時(shí)區(qū)里,你也是!
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
生命就是等待正確的行動(dòng)時(shí)機(jī)。
So, RELAX.
所以,放輕松。
You're not LATE.
你沒有落后。
You're not EARLY.
你沒有領(lǐng)先。
You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.
在命運(yùn)為你安排的屬于自己的時(shí)區(qū)里,一切都準(zhǔn)時(shí)。
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