怎樣改掉猶豫不決的臭毛病

        1. Test them against your values.

　　So many times we have to make decisions without a framework and no way to judge between two choices. When faced with a tricky decision it’s often a good idea to line up your choices and ask “Which one of these most honours the things that mean the most to me?”

　　The decision that’s most in line with the things that mean the most to you – your core values – will be the best decision for you. That might not be the simplest or most practical, but because it fits with who you are and what’s most important to you it will always be the best decision for you.

　　1.用自己的價值觀來評定

　　很多次我們在兩個選擇之間徘徊，沒有一個固定的構(gòu)架或判斷的方法來拿定主意。當我們面臨一個需要機警判斷的決定時，通常我們會有一個好主意那就是把所有的選擇按重要與否排成一條線，然后問一下自己“這些選擇中哪一個讓我覺得最值？”你所做的決定是這條選擇鏈里對你來說最重要的----你的核心價值觀------將會是你最好的選擇。這也許不是最簡單的或者最現(xiàn)實的，但確實最適合你的。對你來說最重要的就是最好的選擇。