在TED演講節(jié)目中,演講者清晰的口語表達及其內(nèi)容的寫作手法都是值得我們學(xué)習(xí)借鑒的。在親子關(guān)系里,父母總是占據(jù)著主導(dǎo)的地位,但其實父母也會犯錯。本期的TED演講告訴我們,父母的干預(yù)很可能是錯誤的,并且承認自己做錯也并不難。下面請結(jié)合視頻內(nèi)容,開始口語學(xué)習(xí)吧!
原文及翻譯
There is no such thing as a perfect parent. Mistakes and struggles, come with the job. Repair assumes there's been a rupture, so to repair, you have to mess up, which means the next time I snap at my kid, instead of berating myself like I did that night in the kitchen, I try to remind myself, I'm focusing on getting good at repair.
世上沒有完美的父母。做父母難免會犯錯,也會遇到困難。修復(fù)的前提是雙方關(guān)系已經(jīng)破裂,所以要想修復(fù),就必須把事情搞砸,這意味著下次我發(fā)脾氣時,我不會像那天晚上在廚房里那樣責(zé)罵自己,而是試著提醒自己,我要專注于修復(fù)。
Name what happened, take responsibility, and state what you would do differently the next time. It could come together like this: "I keep thinking about what happened the other night in the kitchen. I'm sorry I yelled. I'm sure that felt scary, and it wasn't your fault. I'm working on staying calm even when I'm frustrated." A 15-second intervention can have a lifelong impact. I've replaced my child's story of self-blame with a story of self-trust safety and connection.
說出發(fā)生了什么,承擔(dān)責(zé)任,并說明下次你會做些什么不同的事情??梢赃@樣說:“我一直在想那天晚上在廚房里發(fā)生的事情。我很抱歉我大喊大叫。我肯定那感覺很可怕,這不是你的錯。我正在努力保持冷靜,即使我很沮喪?!?15 秒的干預(yù)可能會產(chǎn)生終生影響。我已經(jīng)用一個自我信任、安全和聯(lián)系的故事取代了孩子的自責(zé)故事。
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